Asking for Money: A Nonprofit Nonnegotiable
The other day I had lunch with two very talented technologists and nonprofiteers that are launching a groundbreaking initiative. When I say groundbreaking I’m not exaggerating, their project has the potential to change how people value and support nonprofit services. As a fundraiser I asked a lot of nitpicky questions about prospect lists, potential donors, cash flows, and other infrastructure and funding items. While some people really enjoy talking about legislative strategy I enjoy discussing funding strategies.
One of these very talented guys remarked that it would be great if people recognized that their initiative will help many nonprofits serve their clients and decide to donate without being asked or at least without a strong solicitation. And I agree, it would be great but this is so unlikely as to be almost fantasy. Every nonprofit must have a fundraising plan in place and it must solicit donations and there are no two ways about it. I’m lucky I actually really, really enjoy asking for money on behalf of causes I believe in. I’ve made solicitations for $500 and for $3,000,000 and each is a great experience because I know I’m doing something to help a cause make the world a better place. But I also know that not every one is comfortable asking others to contribute to make a financial.
With that in mind here are my four tips to make the process easier if you would rather walk over hot coals then ask someone to make a donation:
1. Remember that you are not asking for yourself. When you ask someone to donate to a cause you are asking him or her to help a homeless family, or a sick animal, or a refugee in Africa, or to help a person find relief from disease. You are not asking them to buy you that new MacBook Air, or send you to a spa, or to pay for a night out. When you remember what the donation will do and whom it will help the asking becomes much easier.
2. Never apologize for asking. When a person apologizes for asking someone else to support a cause they believe in it undermine the ask and the cause. If a charity is so important to you that you would seek out support for its mission don’t apologize for your belief in it, feel good that you’ve identified something that is making a difference in the world. The person you solicit may have other giving priorities but that doesn’t make your cause any less important and there is certainly no reason to apologize.
3. The word no can’t hurt you. As a fundraiser I’ve heard the word no quite a bit and I promise it hasn’t left any permanent marks.
And most importantly…
4. Your organization must ask for financial support. Don’t think of this as a if or a maybe, asking for gifts is a must for any nonprofit. If you don’t want to that’s fine, this is why there are development professionals! But don’t remove fundraising from your organization’s plan or eventually you won’t have an organization to plan for. When you remind yourself that making a solicitation is a necessity and not a luxury the process will be a whole lot easier.
And trust me, over time asking for support becomes much easier and soon you too will have some sage advice to share!



